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I’ll break it down for you: “Today” (Now), “I embrace” (I hug and accept) “the memory of my past” (my recollections, good and bad), “and feel grateful” (and appreciate), “for all that life has given me” (myself, for who I am, everything that has happened to me and for all that I possess). “I acknowledge” (I know and accept), “that I did the best I could at the time” (that I have used all my skills and abilities), “and now I am ready to let it go” (and now I have become willing to let the past recede into the memories of my yesterdays). “I clear my future road ahead” (I ready and focus my life) “for miracles and happy surprises” (and anticipate unimaginable possibilities and the unexpected!) Peace, John
Now read just the parts in parentheses. Two affirmations for the price of one! Peace, John
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That’s a pretty direct command, don’t you think? Overthinking usually implies a degree of anxiety or insecurity. You tend to overthink about all the possibilities of what could happen in the mistaken notion that if you think of everything, you’ll be ready for anything. Overthinking usually provides you with more problems and fewer solutions. What/who tells you when you are overthinking? How do you know when somebody else is overthinking? I suggest you balance out equal amounts of being aware of what you are feeling, what you are thinking and what your choices are with awareness of what you are doing. Less chance of creating more problems, don’t you think? Peace, John
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Or a woman either! If you can help it, change it. If you can’t help it, let it go. This quote reiterates my firm belief that almost all anger is about unfulfilled expectations and the inability to accept your powerlessness over some person or situation. If you want to lessen your anger, right-size your expectations to fit the reality and accept every thing over which you are powerless. These ideas work if you work them! Peace, John
PS Happy Father’s Day to all you dads out there!
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What a way to start improving your self-esteem! The self-deprecation, self-loathing works against you feeling better about who you are and what you do! How many times a day do you catch yourself being self-critical? Full of self-put-downs? Have you become your own worst enemy?
What would it take to befriend your self? What do you need to hear from others to help you feel better about your self? Can you begin to say those things to your self? What has been stopping you?
What you “aren’t” is not of value. Start building on the foundation of who you are. If nothing else, tell yourself, “I have survived low self-esteem! Now, it’s my job to improve my situation. I am capable of it and, I am beginning now!”
Challenge the negative self-talk and replace it with positive self-talk. It won’t take as long as you might think to start improving. You are worth it! Persist to maintain it … and, keep yourself growing!
I wish you peace in who you are, and in all that you do!
Peace, John
“While we were still children, many of us made choices about the way we were (or weren’t) going to relate to our feelings. These early decisions may still be shaping your emotional life today.” ~ this quote was taken from a handout I have on anger7
For many of us, those choices were not really choices – most of us follow along managing our feelings much as our parents did. What we learned we practiced and what we practiced we became. If we didn’t learn the healthy management of our feelings, they are still shaping our emotional life today, and we are probably not better than our parents were. It’s quite a shame because one can learn how to manage their feelings effectively. Many of you know that I teach Feelings 101, a 15-20 minute crash course subtitled, “Everything You Wanted and Needed To Know About Feelings, But Nobody Told You.” If you’re struggling with feelings and you haven’t experienced Feelings 101, let me know and I’ll try to give you the crash course. Peace, John
“Everything will work out in the end. If it’s not working out, it’s not the end!” ~ as quoted at http://www.maxlucado.com in “UpWords” Aug 6, 2012
I think the first statement is kind of glib. While I believe everything will work out in the end, my belief is that God/Higher Power and I both have roles in making it work out. I think many people would read that first statement and think that, because everything’s gonna work out, they don’t have to do anything. Not true! I believe it’s part of our responsibility to work on things as best we can. The second statement makes a lot of sense. If it’s not working out, it may just be “working through,” and we may still have opportunities to influence the outcome. Remember, “if it’s not working out, you’re still in the middle of it!” – and therein lies the hope. Patience.