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I disagree. I would change it to read “Please do not feed the anxieties.” What’s the difference between anxiety and fear? If I tell you there’s a 300 pound lion walking around your car right now in your driveway, what are you going to feel? Many will say “fear.” I believe what you’re really feeling is “anxious.” However, if your door opened right now and that 300 pound lion walked in you would feel “fear”. With fear, the threat is imminent. When feeling “anxious,” you imagine a situation that might happen, like that lion attacking you when you next get in your car. It isn’t happening to you right now, and usually, not likely to happen either! I think it might have been Mark Twain who allegedly said, “A lot of terrible things happened in my life……, a couple of which actually occurred!” So, please don’t feed the anxieties, or that lion either! Peace, John
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I’ve also heard it said: “Yard by yard it’s hard BUT, inch by inch it’s a cinch!”
This is a good tool for those of us who procrastinate or have trouble staying focused. Break a big project down into small pieces. Then organize them in the order they need to be accomplished; then start working on them. Surprisingly, this helps. If you have problem focusing, it would also help to write down those steps in order and check them off as you accomplish each one. I just finished a session with a disabled gentleman who is trying to register a car in Connecticut from another state. We broke it down into steps – he already has the car here. First, he has to get the title and the VIN. Next, he has to call the insurance company and get it insured. Then he has to get it inspected for emissions. Then he needs to get an appointment at DMV to get it registered and have the bill of sale, registration application, title, and emissions report. Easy peasy? Overwhelming and complex project was broken down into 4 manageable steps for him. Chipping away at it will also let us monitor his progress. I’m hoping he’ll be able to have at least a couple of the steps completed when I talk with them next week. See how it works? Where can you apply these ideas in your life today? Want BIG results? Be patient and make “a little progress each day!” Count your inches!
Peace, John
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An attitude is a combination of how you feel and think about something. It’s different from behavior, although behavior frequently reflects your attitudes. Poor attitudes are usually the result of negative thinking and a judgment that whatever you’re feeling, you shouldn’t. Change the tire! Stop the car, get the jack out & the spare tire, pump up the vehicle, take off the lug nuts, replace it with the spare, tighten it up, lower the car, put all the stuff back in the trunk and get back on the road. Then remember to repair it lest you get another flat! What we’re saying is stop what isn’t getting you where you want to go, replace the attitude with healthy thinking and acceptance of whatever you’re feeling, lock it in and get back on the road to wherever it is your headed. I guarantee the ride will be smoother.
Peace, John
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