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Sounds logical doesn’t it? How many times have you wanted something so bad and kept turning the doorknob? Hope can be a funny thing – skewing our logic.
I’m reminded of a study I once read. A group of scientists built a rat maze and trained a group of rats to run it. When the rats got to the end, there was a reinforcement; they pushed a lever and got some rat food. The scientists then made the exact same maze but human size, sheetrocking 2 rooms in the laboratory. They then got a group of human subjects and trained them to run the human-size maze the exact same way they had trained the rats. At the end, the human subjects would push their lever and get a human reinforcement, probably something like M&Ms. When the scientists knew both the rats and humans were successful and knew how to run their respective mazes, they stopped the reinforcement totally. The rats would run their maze, push the lever …… nothing! The humans ran their maze, pushed the lever …… nothing! The rats ran their maze 6 or 7 times, got nothing, and stopped running the maze. The humans, 2 days later were still running their maze!!!
[A-mazing!:)] What does that say about our “evolved brains” and our emotions?
Hope can be a powerful incentive for us to persist, but, it can also lead us down the path of wasted time and effort. Hope needs to be balanced with reasoning and logic. Sometimes there is more than one way to open a door; other times, it’s not meant for you to open. Like the rats, your time might be better spent looking for what you want somewhere else. Don’t be afraid to walk away from some locked doors. Peace, John
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Where do you spend the majority of the time in your mind? If you spend it in the past, much of it is wasted since there is nothing you can change about what has been. If you spend it in some tomorrow, you may become stuck in an illusion, or delusion, of what might be, but probably won’t be. If you are not in the “now,” then you are paralyzed to effect any change.
How to get to the “now?” Be aware of where your mind is and when you find yourself not in the “now” head back to the now. As Eckhart advises, realize that your life is not yesterday, not tomorrow. Your “life is only ever now!”
Peace, John