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This quote is in contrast to last week’s blog that “it takes as long as it takes.” This one, what I affectionately call “the rule of fives,” asks you to keep a perspective on what’s happening. Yes, it speaks about “getting angry” but the quote applies to many other situations; following it can lessen some anxiety. Getting angry is about your unwillingness to accept your powerlessness in a particular situation. If you can’t do anything about it, why not let it go? Peace, John
I invite you to become a guest blogger. It’s easy: find a quote that speaks to you and write a few sentences about it and what it means to you. Send it all to me in an email with subject line reading “Guest blogger.” I will review and publish it, with gratitude, and with the hope that others will benefit from it as well. If you need some help, I can furnish you with a quote or several to pick from – I have hundreds of them. Let me know. Peace, John
It gets complicated when we try to figure out what other people want from us. We then contort ourselves into what we imagine – and it’s never enough, is it? Why not keep it simple? Just be the best person you are able to be for today and try to improve your self a smidge for tomorrow. Take off the costume and the mask, get off the stage, reconnect to yourself, use “I statements” and let others be who they choose to be. We are powerless over others’ choices. We can only change our selves! Are you up for that? Peace, John
This quote brings you back to today. Most of what we are anxious about is not likely to happen. We create “what if” scenarios in our head and then stress about how it will be when they happen. Those scenarios are usually negative and about some time in the future. If we keep our focus on today we will find that most of the things we worry about are not happening today. Most of the time, being in today, “all is well!” Peace, John
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“YOU HAVE TO MAKE ROOM FOR THE NEW BY RIDDING YOURSELF OF THE OLD.”
It’s about letting go of the past, being in the present and looking forward to the future. We hold on to far more objects than we need, and instead of motivating us they bog us down. It is hard to discard or look at items that seem simultaneously useless and important. They are a part of our history. They are reminders of our path to where we are now. The ones we can use are the ones to keep. Letting go of the rest frees us up to move on.
When we have too much emotional and mental energy tied to the past, it robs us of what we need now to keep our lives in the present, balanced, happy, productive. Try letting go of a few things and see how it feels.
Carrie Lee Henderson, MSW, LCSW
Today’s guest blogger, Carrie Lee, blessed us with this wisdom before she recently retired. Her good works carry-on. Thank you! Peace, John
Some of us are still raising our children, and others have launched them. Some have yet to begin, and still others may be in the process of re-launching. A few may even be in the process of sending their child off to college and facing the “empty nest.”
Is leaving ever comfortable? It’s a transition for sure. Sometimes it’s a sad occasion; other times it’s joyous. Many times, it’s a mixture of both. Were you able to identify and accept the feelings you were/are experiencing as you let them go?
Another idea might be to look at this quote from the perspective of yourself as the child. Were you comfortable when you left your parents? Did you think at the time that your parents had done a good job? Were they good “life-skills” teachers? How difficult was it for you to fly on your own?
And remember… “they are not ours to keep.” They were “lent” to us. They belong to the world – may we be blessed by their journeys!
Peace, John