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“Sobriety is a big gift box with a hundred little packages inside to unwrap.” ~Oscar Morris
Ever get a present like that? One big present and as you unwrap it, a bunch of little ones inside to be unwrapped along the course of your sobriety? The big gift, freedom from the addiction begets, new and exciting discoveries along the way. While each “big gift box” is similar, but the little packages inside are different and become unwrappable at different times during the journey. If you have given yourself the “big gift box” of sobriety, enjoy it and keep a lookout for those little packages for you also to enjoy. Be sure and have “the attitude of gratitude.” If you haven’t given yourself the big gift box of sobriety yet, seriously consider and know that it’s the gift that will keep on giving. Finally, if you do not need the “big gift box” of sobriety, be grateful and be supportive of others on their journey. You too may benefit from some of those hundreds of little packages inside to unwrap! Peace, John
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Last summer, I got on a plane for the first time in 15 years. As we began to take off, I started to feel fearful. I had no control. I could not control the plane or what happened to any of us on the plane. I held on tight as we soared into the air. And I prayed.
Recently I again found myself in a place of fear, actually panic. This time it was due to my concerns over the Coronavirus. I wasn’t feeling good and I started to panic. I was short of breath and my heart and mind were racing. I was overcome with anxiety. Prior to this, I had been constantly reading articles, searching for the latest news, and I was absorbed with any updates on the virus.
When life seems to be spinning out of control, the temptation is to tighten our grip and try to control. We can expend all of our emotional energy trying to control everything around us and have nothing left. This can affect our ability to function in everyday life. When we hold on to control, we can become controlled or paralyzed by stress, anxiety, fear, worry, and/or panic. These can have a detrimental effect on our mental and physical health. When we come to the place where we recognize that we can’t control everything, we can loosen our grip, open our hands and relinquish control. In letting go and releasing control, we can experience peace.
I have a prayer journal. I write my concerns, pray about them, and let them go, knowing that God has them. That means trusting Him and leaving them in His capable hands. This takes an enormous amount of faith. What is the alternative? Living a life controlled by fear and anxiety or living in peace? What can help you to release control over outcomes that are out of your control? For me, I quiet my spirit through prayer, reading/meditating or listening to music.
You do have control over your actions, your thoughts and what you allow to enter your mind. Dwelling on the negative and the “what ifs” could cause you to spiral downward. What are you filling your mind with? What are you holding onto? What are you trying to control?
I am resting in God’s control. There is much more freedom here.
Today’s guest blogger is Kristin from our staff. I thank her for sharing her thoughts with us this way and, as I told her when I previewed her post, I couldn’t have done it better if I wrote it myself! Thank you Kristin. We look forward to reading future blogs from you. Peace, John
“Successful relationships are built upon the foundation of bringing committed love to the table every day, communicating your feelings, receiving your partner’s feelings and setting healthy boundaries to maintain a sense of independence within the relationship. This allows for love to be given and received, proper adjustments to be made if the line of communication gets fuzzy and still gives each of you the freedom to be yourself and bring forth your unique creative expression. This combination will manifest the strongest and healthiest relationships in your life. And remember, the purpose of relationships is to be happy, to learn and to CO-create a life together.”
~ Jackson Kiddard
What a simple formula? You build relationships upon a foundation, i.e. the beginning of the relationship. It’s a table of give-and-take built around sharing and hearing each other’s feelings while respecting your individual differences. This allows for the giving and taking and for changes when the communication received is not the same as that which was sent, i.e. “fuzzy.” You get to stay who you are and respect the other person’s individuality – and it’s happening in reverse too! Your goal is to be happier, to grow and to create that third entity, a “togetherness.” The togetherness is not at the expense of either individual. The togetherness adds value to each person’s individuality and creates a third entity, “us” that can also be unique, accepted, and grow. “Co-create” – what a concept! Happy co-creating!
Today we welcome 16 new members to our blog. They are people I have known and cared about in the past and the years have seen us drift although the memories of time shared are positive and long-lasting. In cleaning up some old email addresses, I decided to add these people to my blog list. If you received this and are not interested in getting weekly positive quotes along with some of my insights, please feel free to unsubscribe yourself. If you received it and are happy to hear from me again and, if you benefit from it, please feel free to pass it on. Peace, John